Inside the green card marriage phenomenon: Hello, I love you. Won’t you tell me your name?

Carla and Esteban*, respectively from Ecuador and Mexico, are part of the Spanish community I belong to. They met here in Richmond at a church function over 8 years ago. Both illegal residents, they began to go out as friends. They shared many common things and had a great time together. Carla had seen and lived through poverty in her home country. She knew that if she had stayed in Ecuador she would have never had a life of safety and the work opportunities for herself and one day for her own children. After she was allowed a tourist visa from the Ecuadorian Consulate, she came to the United States. Tourists visa only last for three months so after she overstayed her visa, she became an illegal resident. She knew that one sure way for her to change her permanent status was to marry an American citizen. I don’t know the amount of monetary payment they had agreed upon, but a marriage agreement was made with a man from New York, who started to process the necessary paperwork.
In the meantime Carla and Esteban decided they wanted more than friendship with each other. They loved spending time together and talk about personal goals. They shared a rich culture and a profound religious attitude.
When the time came for the arranged marriage to take place, Carla started to have serious doubts. She knew she loved Esteban and she was also sure about the love he had for her. She also understood Esteban, like herself, was also an illegal resident and could not offer her the life of security and opportunities she was working so hard and was ever so close to obtaining!
When Carla’s birthday came along, Esteban’s family surprised her with a wonderful party. Many of Esteban’s family members, (all illegal) were invited, including children. Carla’s loved family events of all kinds and was ever so moved by the outpouring of love she received by everyone present.
In Mexico, at birthday parties children always play la piñada’s game that consists of hanging a usually round shape object filled with candies and other goodies to a tree. Children take turns in being blindfolded and beat the object with a stick until it breaks and all goodies fall to the ground for the kids to pick up.
At Carla’s birthday party, Esteban had her blindfolded. After he gave her the stick, she started to beat hard on the object that after a few strikes broke and many goodies fell to the ground. As the children ran to pick up the candies, Carla’s noticed that a small box wrapped with beautiful paper had also fallen to the ground. The children noticed and looked at her knowing that she was the one whose gift was destined for. They handed it to her. She carefully removed the gold ribbon and unwrapped the box. When she opened it, she stopped smiling, her eyes filling with tears. Everyone became silent as she run away from the presence of all the invitees.
After she locked herself in the bathroom, she started to cry uncontrollably. A few minutes later, with her hands still shaking, she opened the box again starring at the beautiful engagement ring. She felt an overwhelming feeling of peace as she prayed to know whether she should accept Esteban’s marriage proposal.
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Sometimes life conditions for millions of Latinos in Central and South America countries is so desperate due to lack of work opportunities and consequent poverty, that many of them resolve in their minds to find whatever way possible to enter and stay in the United States. In these desperate frames of mind, and because of well established immigration laws, many revert to entering fraudulent marriages to American citizens to obtain legal and permanent residence in the United States.
Marriage fraud for the purpose of immigration is not a new idea. More than 20 years ago the United States Senate held hearings on the topic and concluded that it was a significant and growing problem but only a few of the recommendations proposed ever went anywhere. Meanwhile, the number of foreign nationals obtaining green cards through marriage to Americans has quintupled since 1970. Yet, there have been very truly in-depth examinations of this topic, partly because the issue is difficult to discuss without offending legitimate international spouses.
Many of the relationships between Americans and foreign nationals are legitimate, but because of the prevalence of sham marriages, the legitimate couples can face longer wait times due to the huge number of bogus marriages petitions that slow down visa bureaucracy. Legitimate couples may also be forced to endure invasive and sometimes harsh interviews with the United States Citizenship and Immigration Service (USCIS) who are trying to screen out fake couples.
There are several types of Marriage Fraud used not only by Latinos but also from people all over the developing countries around the globe. Here are a few examples:
“I do, I don’t, I do” marriage, where foreign nationals divorce their spouses in their home countries, marry Americans and get the green cards two years later; then divorce the Americans, remarry their original spouses and petition to bring them to the United States.
“Cash-for-vows weddings” where Americans are paid to wed for fees that range between $5,000 to $20,000.
Mail order bride arrangements. Today, there are hundreds, possibly thousands of international matchmaking businesses operating around the world, most for the express purpose of matching lonely men from the United States and other wealthy countries with women from developing countries who want to live in the United States, Canada or Western Europe. Although consular officers clearly are highly suspicious of American men who take part in mail-order marriages, the rule of thumb is that if the American believes the relationship is real, then it is. So consular officers only are responsible for trying to guess the motives of the American, not to explain the poverty and desperation that drive women to participate in mail-order marriages.
You belong to Me. Exploitative relationships where Americans petition for persons they intend to traffic or exploit in some way: Aside from the variety of smugglers and individuals seeking to immigrate to the United States, there are also individuals using marriage fraud to achieve criminal or terrorist goals. The use of fraudulent marriage petitions is prevalent among terrorists who routinely use marriage petitions to bring in women they intent to exploit either commercially or privately. Not only do American men exploit foreign women, but foreign men sometimes also use coercion, threats and sometimes outright violence to induce American women to marry them as a means of gaining entry to the United States.
Heartbreak Hotel – Americans Duped into Marriages. Classic marriage fraud cases involve two people conspiring to bring an immigrant to the United States based on a phony marriage, but for every case where there are two conspirators there is at least one where the American believes the marriage is based on mutual affection and love while the foreigner only wants to obtain a green card. Consular officers frequently interview cross-cultural couples who appear to be grossly mismatched, but cannot deny the petitions to Americans who do not know that they are being used for a visa, which makes this type of one-sided marriage fraud nearly impossible to stop. Middle-aged American men are the most common victims, though younger people and women fall victim as well. The clichéd case involves Americans who for whatever reason, recently divorced, mid-life crisis, etc., move to or travel to a developing country and soon find that they are able to date members of the opposite sex who wouldn’t give them the time of the day in the United States. Americans with no previous travel experience who are sent overseas as contractors, soldiers and laborers are particularly susceptible to being duped into marriage. When Americans overseas feel desirable, perhaps for the first time in their entire lives, many fail to see that poverty and desperation is what makes them popular. Sometimes consular officers interview wide-eyed, love-stricken Americans who have no idea that the person they have just married or are about to marry has a track record of visa denials, fraud, or immigration violations and consular officers often have to decide how much information to divulge to the American about their spouses’ immigration track records.
Every year, thousands of people from the Central, South American and other Countries around the globe wishing to move to the United States or gain permanent resident status do so by marrying American citizens. In some cases, the Americans are willing participants in the fraud, in others they are victims. It is impossible to know what percentage of the 300,000 plus spouses who gain green cards each year through marriage to American citizens are based on a fraudulent relationship.
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Carla decided to give up her “Cash-for-vows” wedding to marry her true love. She understood that, unless a new immigration reform takes place, both her and her husband will always be considered illegal residents in the United States and will continue to live in fear of the possibility to be discovered and deported in their country of origin at any time. However, they won’t even consider going back to either Mexico or Ecuador to start a life there with their two daughters. The dangers and poverty they would be subjected to would greatly outweigh the incertitude they experience in the U.S. on a daily basis.
Seminara, D. ( 2008, November ). Hello, I love you, wont’ you tell me your name: Inside the green card marriage phenomenon. Center for Immigration Studies. Retrieved on 11/4/2010 from Academic Search Complete database.